www.lcsrc.org (sorry meant to post that and forgot)
I had to roll back to the standard menu as we have a soft launch this afternoon and it needs to look "normal".
I have recreated the issue and buried it on the site here:
www.lcsrc.org/index.php/links/ari-ext-menu-sample
I did more testing and this seems to be tied to my template as it doesnt happen with another template I downloaded.
As I am very new to Joomla and website building I am not sure what the next step is except maybe find a new template or test other menu products...